This is a First Person column by Bob Babinski, a talent and performance coach who lives in Montreal. For more information about CBC’s First Person stories, please see the FAQ.
Where do you look for someone after they have died?
Can I find my dad in the old pair of rain boots he’d wear while cutting his lawn? Or the red and black lumberjack coat he’d put on during the colder months of yard work? Those weren’t exactly his style, but they were what he chose to wear when doing his chores.
There’s also his wedding ring, which I removed from his finger in
